Sometimes it feels like I have a loss for words. And if you know me, you’re probably sitting there reading this going, “well, that’s not the Dragonfly I know.” And your right; most of the time, I can find my … Continued
Mmmm, I love, love. I love intimacy and connection. All year long…not just in February.And I am pretty sure you know that to be a very true statement about me, even if you haven’t known me for very long. This … Continued
Over the years, I have learned to keep my eyes, mind, and body open. You often see and experience things on a whole nother level when you allow yourself this gift. So when I was approached by 3 different people … Continued
“Can obtaining an orgasm be taught?” Ok, before I give you the A to this Q, I have been asked this many times in various ways, and anyway you ask it, I see it coming from basically the same place. … Continued
Quick Q for you… What’s the greatest challenge in your relationship? or the sexual relationship to yourself? Doesn’t matter how many partners or no current partners you have. These challenges can be part of any dynamic. Yes, I know most … Continued
Do you currently feel or have felt in the past overwhelmed, exhausted, reclusive or unmotivated? I think that most of us have felt at least one of these things within our relationship designs at some point or time period of … Continued
Last week’s disappointment was part of my feels… you know when I lost all of what I had written to you in my love news. Yep, that happened. This mess up pretty quickly turned into something I could see would … Continued
We all feel insecure about something. That is a sweeping generalization but I believe it is true, all of us have something. Most of us have several things, I know I do. Insecurities are a deeply personal feeling that can … Continued
We have all seen it thousands of times. Most of us have done it hundreds of times. That is walking a dog on a leash. Why? What is the leash for? Easy, it is to control the dog. We want … Continued
We all have filters, ways of perceiving the world that is unique and unconscious. The human brain has evolved to be as energy-efficient as possible and one of the ways to cut energy expenses is to create shortcuts for commonly … Continued