Sexy TV to Real Life
If you know me or E, you know we are not huge TV watchers, on average about 3-6 hrs a week. Mostly movies. And then there are the times when I have had a down day, or needed to be … Continued
Do you lose your words sometimes like me?
Sometimes it feels like I have a loss for words. And if you know me, you’re probably sitting there reading this going, “well, that’s not the Dragonfly I know.” And your right; most of the time, I can find my … Continued
I love, love. That Platonic Kind!
Mmmm, I love, love. I love intimacy and connection. All year long…not just in February.And I am pretty sure you know that to be a very true statement about me, even if you haven’t known me for very long. This … Continued
Some secrets seem like their secrets but aren’t really secrets.
Over the years, I have learned to keep my eyes, mind, and body open. You often see and experience things on a whole nother level when you allow yourself this gift. So when I was approached by 3 different people … Continued
Can obtaining an orgasm be taught?
“Can obtaining an orgasm be taught?” Ok, before I give you the A to this Q, I have been asked this many times in various ways, and anyway you ask it, I see it coming from basically the same place. … Continued
Have you asked yourself this Q?
Quick Q for you… What’s the greatest challenge in your relationship? or the sexual relationship to yourself? Doesn’t matter how many partners or no current partners you have. These challenges can be part of any dynamic. Yes, I know most … Continued
Happy Happy 2021
Happy Happy 2021 While there’s nothing like a brand new calendar year to signal a fresh start, I want you to remember one crucial thing… Life isn’t a race to push yourself through. There are NO prizes for exhaustion, lack of … Continued
How to stay connected and have pleasure in a world of Coronavirus.
During a time in our world of extra stress and anxiety, living in fear, and the short and long term effects if you contract COVID-19 this round of flu season or not. The world’s unknowns as a whole and what … Continued
Love Often, Love More
“Where there is love, there is life.” Gandhi Love…Just saying it could bring up all types of emotions for yourself. Love seems to be a complicated thing for most of us. Does she love me? Does he love me? Do they … Continued
Ivy’s Gateway Weekend Experience
Life isn’t always how we thought it would go for us, or what we were told it would look like for us. And knowing where to turn for guidance, how you want your life to look, understanding what sort of … Continued
Our Capacity
Do you currently feel or have felt in the past overwhelmed, exhausted, reclusive or unmotivated? I think that most of us have felt at least one of these things within our relationship designs at some point or time period of … Continued
My Moment of Disappointment
Last week’s disappointment was part of my feels… you know when I lost all of what I had written to you in my love news. Yep, that happened. This mess up pretty quickly turned into something I could see would … Continued
Growing Up Sexually Empowered
As I was growing up I didn’t realize everything that went into my overall wellness, I especially didn’t realize or know about my sexual wellness. And, how that actually played a part in my overall wellness. I saw these as … Continued
Filters. Which Ones are You Looking Through?
We all have filters, ways of perceiving the world that is unique and unconscious. The human brain has evolved to be as energy-efficient as possible and one of the ways to cut energy expenses is to create shortcuts for commonly … Continued
Erotic Self-Pleasure Stories…to Break the Shame
Masturbation or also called erotic self-pleasure is where most of us have experienced orgasms for the first time. In America, there is a lot of shame attached to self-pleasure and sexuality. Most of us masturbate and experience our own bodies … Continued