Pure Orgasmic Love


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BodyLove Connection Meditation

In this 4 part meditation, you can access and build safety in the connection to your body using relaxation, breath, touch, and voice to support and empower your body’s needs. You can practice this daily, and I encourage you to do this as much as is needed along your healing and growth path.

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Pssst, I have been there, and I found a path through.

Lost, frustrated, disconnected, and a lack of arousal are just a few words to describe how I have felt and how many women feel daily.

Like you and I, hundreds of women tell me how they have lost themselves somewhere among the day-to-day hustle of family, work, and all the weeds of life. Then we pour on the relationship and hormonal changes, and it can feel like there is no room for you.

That’s how I felt, no room for me—I didn’t realize the lack of knowledge about myself and my very own body. And how that was holding me back.
There was so much I wasn’t aware of at the time.
All I knew was I didn’t like how I felt in many areas of my life, and I wanted it to change.
Using a variety of self-awareness and somatic practices, individually and in group experience. I’ve been able to understand and nourish my inner and outer self so that I can now show up more fully in my life-ALL of ME.
All of my authentic self, not a version of someone elses making!

Understanding yourself…

and how you are wired is vital to your happiness and the amount of pleasure your body holds for you.

If you’ve found your way here, it’s no accident.

This space is crafted just for you and me—an intersection where women come together to reconnect with our authentic selves, explore the depths of our desires, and weave the threads of pleasure into the fabric of our lives.



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Thank You, I love what you say…

What an experience it was for me!

It was wonderful to be around so many amazing women and to feel safe, have a safe space to speak our truth, talk about our issues, to encourage each other to help us see how beautiful and amazing we really are. I felt that from everyone this weekend. And I highly recommend doing one of Dragonfly’s Goddess Weekends because it really was truly an amazing experience.

Tess, LA – Goddess Gateway Attendee

You are such a beautiful soul. Such a gift.

I think about the weekend I had with you and all those beautiful ladies. And what a gift it was. Being able to sit still in peace is a gift I learned, whether it is just sitting still or learning more about what pleasure is to me. I know I have shared this before, I feel like I can breathe now. And I can see things with a different set of eyes.

Peace, love, and prayers to you. 
Love always, 
Deanne, FL – Goddess Gateway Attendee

At first, I was unsure.

This was my first time going to anything like this and I was unsure of what may happen and who I may meet there. I always jump to negative feelings first, because that’s my way of dealing with new situations, even when it’s a positive one. 

Once we began talking and connecting, it felt peaceful and satisfying. I blossomed. I found things about myself that I didn’t want to face. I never focus on me, I’m the kind of person that would put someone else before me.

I am truly grateful for this weekend for giving me the confidence to learn more about myself and to face those things. It’s helped me to think about myself in not a selfish way but a sensual way. I should love myself, it’s not wrong or shameful. I never believed this truly until being here this weekend.
I look forward to another Gateway weekend. I enjoyed feeling my inner goddess strength and allowing myself to feel free. My spirit was free. I was left wanting more and I can’t wait to attend more sessions of Dragonfly!
I recommended this as soon as I left the first night.
Lindsi W. FL – Goddess Gateway Attendee

I found attending the Gateway was beneficial to me.

“By giving me the opportunity to connect with other women in a way that goes beyond the surface. One of the most powerful experiences was getting the opportunity to receive adornment and to give adornment to other women as it made me feel celebrated and allowed me to give others that feeling.

Prior to coming to the Gateway, I felt stress from all the things I had occurring in my life, but I left feeling appreciated and valued.

I was grateful for Dragonfly checking in with me and offering support when needed. This Gateway also surprisingly helped me by opening me up to receiving clarity when it comes to my romantic relationship desires and gave me the ability to express what I wanted.

Yemoja, GA – Goddess Gateway 

More than anything, I realized I had underrated my desires, needs, wants.

I am learning to prioritize myself because I can not give my best when I am falling apart. I saw that there’s a lot I neglect about myself just to please others. 

 Now, I breathe more. I’m slower to react because I want to process how I am feeling. And last, I don’t dismiss and close my pain off from people because I’m scared its too much for them. I am still learning how I want to use my words to properly communicate when things go wrong in my life to my loved ones. I also see that I actually need to fall apart so I can build myself up stronger, and showing others your vulnerabilities actually makes you more bonded; it’s an encouraging feeling. This Goddess Gateway showed me that maybe my initial reaction is coming from how previous toxic relationships and negative environments have influenced me to not be true to myself. I want to be an open hearted, supportive, fun and a relaxed spirit of a person and I now have tools and I better understand how that looks and feels for me as an individual. 
Three days of being in this unconditionally loving environment was not enough. When it was coming to a close, I was sad because I longed for more. I am so grateful I had the opportunity to shed light on the dark place I was in. This was like giving a child a night light, things that were locked away and mysterious are no longer terrifying me to the point I feel paralyzed. However, I am ready for all the loving warm light- hoping to ignite and brighten another corner with each Gateway and Retreat as I continue to grow with Dragonfly at Pure Orgasmic Love.”
Ivy, FL – Goddess Gateway

An Invitation to More Connection & Pleasure

Imagine a life where you spend less time in tension and as much time in joy, connection, and pleasure as possible.
Embracing opportunities and allowing yourself to rediscover your essence, reclaim your sensuality, build a self-love foundation, and learn the not-so-sexy and sexy skills that will propel you forward. 
This is an amazing path.
I would love for you to support your body’s process of discovering, releasing, healing, and blooming into your pleasure. For the longevity of your sexual wellness, self-care, and overall relationships.

Take my hand.

I’m here to illuminate your gardens path.

Together, we’ll explore the somatic realm of mind, body, and inner being, unraveling the layers that conceal your most authentic inner Goddess

Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast

With Dragonfly

Welcome to Pure Orgasmic Love w/Dragonfly. A podcast where we embark on a path of self-discovery, love, and pleasure. This podcast isn’t just a listening experience; it’s a shared exploration of growth and self-discovery. Where I celebrate the beauty of self-love and dive into the foundational non-sexy skills and some of the sexy skills that nurture your way to an authentic inner-being and a connective, loving, and pleasure-filled life. 
In each episode, we’ll explore the somatic foundations of self-insight, drawing from my experiences as a woman and a trained Somatic Sexologist and Certified Sexological Bodyworker.
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“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”