Pure Orgasmic Love

Chances are you were not taught how to:

~have functional relationships

~know what your needs and desires are

~how to ask for what you want

~how to give or receive pleasure

Yet you are expected to be great at all of it. 
You’re supposed to know how to balance your family life, work, and relationships and have amazing sex for everyone involved.

Mission & Vision

What is our mission?

~To create a safe, joyful place to learn, explore, and connect

~To give you valuable information and actionable tools on how to create your own Orgasmic Life

~To discover what pleasure looks like specifically for you

~To focus on all aspects in life and celebrate our wins together

~To ensure that all of our information and practices are backed by scientific evidence

What is our vision?

~To have access to accurate and safe information

~To live in a world where acceptance, communication, and pleasure are fruitful and accessible to everyone

~To have functional relationships filled with pleasure

~To live free of the stigmas and programming that make us think we are incapable of living the life we want

The bottom line is that we want to help you live the life you were meant to live and experience pleasure in your body like never before. Period.

Thank you Dragonfly for the experience you have given us, I was not expecting that. This was so much more than we could have imagined. Your classes are not only pleasurable and sexy, but new perspectives towards connection and I even learned new techniques to broaden our love life.”

Erin & Jack


Fantastic experience, not to be missed! We are returning clients and will continue to attend future workshops. We highly recommend Dragonfly’s seminars and classes to all couples interested in enhancing their communication, passion, and bonding.” 

John & Jean

New Orleans

What We Do

Pure Orgasmic Love offers various ways to connect with yourself and your partner(s) and learn how to live a sex-positive, loving, and orgasmic life through the use of evidence-based, experiential education.

Working with couples and individuals in various types of relationships, focusing on those who identify as non-monogamous and those who are thinking about opening up their relationship to become non-monogamous.

Most of us don’t realize all of the non-sexy learning that goes into making our relationships and more intimate sexy-times be what we want them to be. As we always say here at POL, “it’s not just one thing that makes relationships and sex work; it’s a toolbox filled with many skills and mindsets that create the outcome that you’re looking for.”

Our goal is to provide guidance to connect deeper with yourself and your partner(s). Communication is a significant tool in our clients’ toolboxes, as well as learning through doing, with work including body awareness, anatomy, and other body-based teachings about relationships and sex.

Hi, I’m Dragonfly

(she/her): Founder and CEO of Pure Orgasmic Love, Somatic Sexologist, Certified Sexual Bodyworker, Somatica® Practitioner, and Non-monogamy Coach.

My love for connection and nature, which I attribute to my family and how I was raised, greatly supports my mission of helping others create the orgasmic life I believe we were all born to live. 
I walk a path in life without shaming or judgment of myself or others, and because I know precisely what it means to understand and accept ones needs and desires, I am able to help you find and feel all the pleasure in your body that you want and truly need.
I graduated from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality with a degree in Sexology as a Certified Sexological Bodyworker. I also attended the Somatica® Institute, studied Somatica® Method Therapy, and have been an assistant teacher for the Institute.
I take courses on practically applied personal and interpersonal relationship skills and trauma awareness with The National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine to continue in furthering my education. In addition, I try to attend as many personal retreats and intensive hands-on workshops as possible. This all allows me to bring more growth, access, and support to my clients and to myself.
My mission in life is to teach you the skills to construct amazing relationships, have sex with mind-blowing orgasms, and show you that the happiness you are seeking is actually within your reach.
Please join me on this wonderful journey to plant and water your relationship and sex seeds, watch them grow, and see what the bloom shows you.

Hi, I’m E

(Erik) aka “Mr Dragonfly”

(he/him): Certified Primal Health Coach. Sexual Nutrition and Hormone Balancing Magician. 

E’s twenty-year long zoology career was the perfect place to accumulate a deep understanding of animal biology on a foundational basis. Humans are animals, you know!

He brings his evolution-based viewpoint of nutrition-linked reproduction to human health and sexual wellness.

Not only does he bring a vast amount of support to POL, but he is also the perfect slice of masculine energy that pairs with Dragonfly’s sensuality in this super sexy co-teaching duo!

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