Hi, I'm Dragonfly,

and I welcome you on this path to pleasure! 
We all have different desires and needs.

My mission is to help you find yours and to teach you the skills to receive them. As a somatically trained holistic sexual wellness practitioner, I guide people through experiential practices that allow them to learn through their bodies, not only their mind. My method teaches women and couples to receive and give as much pleasure as possible.

Living a life full of orgasmic energy requires us to first look within to find what we want. Then allowing ourselves to accept and express those desires to our partner(s), only then are we able to feel allll the pleasure we desire.

Sexual wellness is critical to overall wellness, and I believe that everyone should have access to effective information. I strive to be as accessible as I can to those who want to learn. So I offer education online through my website membership portal, and I host intimate in-person experiences, Pure Orgasmic Love Pleasure Retreats. 

How do I know if I would be a good fit for your method?

Your open minded, and you want to expand yourself and your relationships. You want to learn things that will enhance your sex life. You want to take your relationship to a level it has never been before learning about desires, needs, and mindful fulfillment. You want to feel connected and have mind-blowing orgasms! Hell, you want to learn what you should have known all along if we were taught about our bodies and normalizing the pleasures it holds.
 If you want to explore the options you have for education based on neurobiology, with sound secure knowledge to implement for all of your pleasure, then this method is for you.

It starts with you. Having the skills to enhance your life overall is vital to your happiness, so I encourage you to take a leap, step into yourself, and what is around the corner in learning for yourself and enjoy all the benefits that come from discovering and unpacking, processing, and practicing.  If you are looking for hacks or snapping your fingers and poof it is, then this method is not for you.

Do I have to be in a relationship to get anything out of your stuff?

Nope, I work with a wide range of beautiful beings.Some are single, and some are in various types of relationships. My clients are monogamous, ethically non-monogamous, polyamorous, kinky, vanilla, open-minded, just about anything you can think of.
No matter who we are, we most likely are lacking in sexual wellness education and probably have some trauma, and past hurts. My goal is to help you understand yourself first, then your partner(s)
The key to really good relationships with others is having one with yourself. So let's start with YOU.

What type of experiences do you offer?

I offer inclusive experiential learning online and in-person. Accessibility is important to me, and I have found that instructing online so you can learn in the comfort of your own home allows the body to feel safe and to ease into exploring and learning.
Once you have a foundation built and discover your needs, you can attend in-person retreats to practice and get more in-depth hands-on with what you have learned.

Why did you become a Sexologist?

During my previous careers in addiction, mental health, holistic wellness, and the beauty industry, I notice a common thread among people. None of us were taught about our bodies or relationships, and we are all just winging it, unsuccessfully overall, I might add. So, I told E that I wanted to help at a higher level. I wanted to help more people. Yes, I learned more about sex and relationships as I started with self-education over the years, but the books available only took me so far.


Professional education and experience were essential to me from the beginning. If I was to understand at a foundational level and teach others, schooling was necessary. And what I found was way more than I had expected—moving me further into the career of sexual education and holistic wellness.


Because I'm a sensation based person to start with, I decided on a somatic-bodily way of learning. I became a Somatically trained Sexologist, a CSB-Certified Sexological Bodyworker, and Somatica® Practitioner. Experiencing, and then practicing the hell out of all of it! Wow, how that changed my life...

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What if I'm already having great sex?

I would say hells yes! That's fantastic to hear because there are so many people not having the sex they want. Truthfully, for a long time, I didn't even know what I wanted.

I had no idea what sex could really be for myself. I didn't know how to embody my pleasures so I could have mind-blowing, body shaking, earth rumbling sex. Over time I learned that no matter what level of sex I was having, there are skills to enhance it even more.

One of the main reasons I continue to walk a path of discovery in pleasure for myself...if sex is now this unbelievable...what could it be if I really opened up and learned the skills to enhance myself and my partner(s) relationships. EXPLOSIVE!

You look familiar...where have I seen you before? 

I've been told that I am memorable. I do have a unique and different essence to myself, and my look tends to stand out.

 I am lucky enough to make a living teaching to open-minded people all over the world. So you may have seen me at Naughty in 'Nawlins, Couples Cruise, Bliss Cruise, Hedonism II, Fetish Con, or at Caliente Resort where I have a private Studio and host events. I have also been featured on XRUniversity, CNN, ASN Magazine, and the NUSA Sun. And, you may have heard my voice on podcasts like The Sexy Lifestyle and SEX Uninterrupted.  

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