Do you lose your words sometimes like me?

Sometimes it feels like I have a loss for words. And if you know me, you’re probably sitting there reading this going, “well, that’s not the Dragonfly I know.” And your right; most of the time, I can find my words or at least “make them...

Can obtaining an orgasm be taught?

“Can obtaining an orgasm be taught?” Ok, before I give you the A to this Q, I have been asked this many times in various ways, and anyway you ask it, I see it coming from basically the same place. Thinking that you, as a grown-ass adult, should know how to...

Have you asked yourself this Q?

Quick Q for you… What’s the greatest challenge in your relationship? or the sexual relationship to yourself? Doesn’t matter how many partners or no current partners you have. These challenges can be part of any dynamic.  Yes, I know most people don’t ask you...

I Began to Connect My Sexual Wholeness

SEX. Sex is difficult. Sex for some of us is very hard to talk about. Sex holds a space of shame, judgment, pain and unfulfilled pleasure at moments. Sex doesn’t feel good in our bodies because of a lack of safety and past traumatic sexual experiences. Some of us have...