During a time in our world of extra stress and anxiety, living in fear, and the short and long term effects if you contract COVID-19 this round of flu season or not. The world’s unknowns as a whole and what … Continued
“Where there is love, there is life.” Gandhi Love…Just saying it could bring up all types of emotions for yourself. Love seems to be a complicated thing for most of us. Does she love me? Does he love me? Do they … Continued
SEX. Sex is difficult. Sex for some of us is very hard to talk about. Sex holds a space of shame, judgment, pain and unfulfilled pleasure at moments. Sex doesn’t feel good in our bodies because of a lack of … Continued
Life isn’t always how we thought it would go for us, or what we were told it would look like for us. And knowing where to turn for guidance, how you want your life to look, understanding what sort of … Continued
When someone says the word pornography, what jumps to mind first? For most people, we would think that the first thing you think of is explicit movies and clips on the internet. Although that is where our minds go first, … Continued
Do you currently feel or have felt in the past overwhelmed, exhausted, reclusive or unmotivated? I think that most of us have felt at least one of these things within our relationship designs at some point or time period of … Continued
Last week’s disappointment was part of my feels… you know when I lost all of what I had written to you in my love news. Yep, that happened. This mess up pretty quickly turned into something I could see would … Continued
As I was growing up I didn’t realize everything that went into my overall wellness, I especially didn’t realize or know about my sexual wellness. And, how that actually played a part in my overall wellness. I saw these as … Continued
We all feel insecure about something. That is a sweeping generalization but I believe it is true, all of us have something. Most of us have several things, I know I do. Insecurities are a deeply personal feeling that can … Continued
We have all seen it thousands of times. Most of us have done it hundreds of times. That is walking a dog on a leash. Why? What is the leash for? Easy, it is to control the dog. We want … Continued
This simple fact is something I have spent too much time thinking and worrying about. I am not alone. Perhaps I should start a 12 step program for “normal people” who are insecure about their physical attributes because negative self-talk … Continued
Modern human societies are obsessed with breasts. We look at them, talk about them, enhance them, and use them to sell everything from toothpaste to luxury cars. What is our fascination with boobs? When did it start? Although many will … Continued
We all have filters, ways of perceiving the world that is unique and unconscious. The human brain has evolved to be as energy-efficient as possible and one of the ways to cut energy expenses is to create shortcuts for commonly … Continued
Masturbation or also called erotic self-pleasure is where most of us have experienced orgasms for the first time. In America, there is a lot of shame attached to self-pleasure and sexuality. Most of us masturbate and experience our own bodies … Continued