My Moment of Disappointment

Last week’s disappointment was part of my feels… you know when I lost all of what I had written to you in my love news. Yep, that happened.  This mess up pretty quickly turned into something I could see would be helpful to all of us, if I could pull it...

Growing Up Sexually Empowered

As I was growing up I didn’t realize everything that went into my overall wellness, I especially didn’t realize or know about my sexual wellness. And, how that actually played a part in my overall wellness.  I saw these as separate, not...

Evolving Insecurity

We all feel insecure about something. That is a sweeping generalization but I believe it is true, all of us have something. Most of us have several things, I know I do. Insecurities are a deeply personal feeling that can be very hard to discuss with others, even those...

Who Holds Your Leash?

We have all seen it thousands of times. Most of us have done it hundreds of times. That is walking a dog on a leash. Why? What is the leash for? Easy, it is to control the dog. We want the animal to walk with us on our terms in order to keep them safe and to make the...

Average Penis

This simple fact is something I have spent too much time thinking and worrying about. I am not alone. Perhaps I should start a 12 step program for “normal people” who are insecure about their physical attributes because negative self-talk is absolutely an addiction...

Evolution of Boobs

Modern human societies are obsessed with breasts.  We look at them, talk about them, enhance them, and use them to sell everything from toothpaste to luxury cars. What is our fascination with boobs? When did it start? Although many will say it is a modern thing...