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“When you are a strong, independent, successful woman the last thing you want is memories of sexual trauma popping up as you enter the best stage of your life. But, as I learned, you don’t get to control when your trauma makes an appearance.
It was that trauma that first brought me to Dragonfly.
As I searched for a Sexual Trauma specialist she popped up in my goggle search. My first thought was, “This woman won’t judge me.”
Working with Dragonfly completely changed my life. Not only did we work through the trauma I had stuffed down for so many years,, but after the Initial work I was able to learn to release my goddess within.
Now I know that sounds a little kooky, but it’s the only way I can describe what happened in my time with her. I am still the strong, get it done, corporate executive I was before working with her, but now I am also confident in my sexuality. I no longer take advances from men to mean that I somehow did something wrong or that I was a slut and they could sense it. I know who I am. I own my body and my sexual desires.
Once I was able to face my trauma I was able to move on to her classes on body mapping, and sexual wellness with my husband. Our marriage and sex life is stronger than I could have ever imagined. I am able to fully give myself to him and trust that he only wants the best for me. To say that our work with Dragonfly has improved our sex life would be like calling the ocean a puddle.
But not only did it improve my marriage it changed me as a person in every aspect of my life. I have let go of so many unhealthy tendencies that held me back and damaged my relationships. Even those with my children.
Working with Dragonfly is truly one of the best gifts I ever gave myself and those I love.”
Gina, AR
"It is from our long held view that too many people do not spend nearly enough time studying one of life’s greatest pleasures, sex and intimacy, that we offer this strong recommendation of Dragonfly and E and their wonderful membership “Pure Orgasmic Love Members area.” Many believe sex just comes “naturally.” While the urge for sexual pleasure is found in biology, satisfying both a partner and oneself requires knowledge and learning.
The person who believes they can do anything really well by instinct is often average. If you want to get the full benefit of this wonderful gift of nature, the lessons Dragonfly and E teach are some of the best we have found.
We are their friends and love them for the kind and caring people they are, but our endorsement is based on many lengthy discussions the four of us have shared together and using the members area. We are proud to call ourselves students, because we want to learn all there is of shared intimacy."
Learning from them will truly enrich your life.
Tom & Peggy, FL
"The Pure Orgasmic Love (POL) members site is AMAZING!!! Not only are the playlists helpful, they are full of information with exercises/practices that you can do alone or with a partner! The playlists are easy to understand and follow, and the personal “homework” can make “sexy time” even sexier, and fun!
It doesn’t hurt that Dragonfly and her partner, E, are sexy AF! Can’t wait for new playlists, to see what’s in store for me next!
The video podcasts are an added bonus!"
Shannon K., ID
"I had no idea that there were actual practices to engage my body, and I think this is a major point to joining. It's providing valuable education and information I can use to tailor it specific to me! I've been pleased about the depth to which Dragonfly shares the information needed, and honestly, the education and skills are so valuable, and it's not something you get on other sites...Thank you."
Dave & Julie, TX
"I started working with Dragonfly and E in the membership because I wanted to figure out how to get my wife to have sex more often. Instead what I ended up learning were ways to make every part of our relationship more pleasurable. Oh and the sex is better, and we have way more of it!"
W.S., NY
"I didn't know learning about things like my breath, touch, and communication could be so enjoyable. I may be hot for teacher. More please!"
Chris, VA
"I came into Dragonfly’s Sexsations class hoping to learn some new sex tips and blow off steam, but I came out with more than I bargained for- and I’m not just talking about the toy box! Her guided class helped me get in touch with my body. I don’t normally let go like that. Getting permission to experience pure pleasure is such a powerful thing, it brought tears to my eyes. I walked out of her classroom having had a spiritual experience! Now I can access that headspace at home, and share it with my lovers in turn."
Riley Reyes
Adult Star, Advocate and Sex Educator
"We were super excited when we signed up, but got apprehensive as the date grew closer. The event, however, exceeded our expectations.
We were made to feel super comfortable, and were able to explore each other in a way we never had before.
We also improved our communication. We now have great memories, new techniques we can use to excite each other, and can’t wait to attend another event."
K and C, NC
Thank you Dragonfly for the experience you have given us, I was not expecting that. This was so much more than we could have imagined. Your classes are not only pleasurable and sexy, but new perspectives towards connection and I even learned new techniques to broaden our love life.”
Erin & Jack, NY
Adela Mello, TX
"Fantastic experience, not to be missed! We are returning clients and will continue to attend future workshops. We highly recommend Dragonfly's seminars and classes to all couples interested in enhancing their communication, passion, and bonding."
John and Jean, New Orleans
"This was our first time doing a class that was not private and I was not sure I wanted to go in. Dragonfly came out and spoke to me and I still felt nervous but trusted her and we ended up loving the class. I encourage you to attend any of her classes. It was fun, relaxing and educational."
RG
Laura J., FL
"We had a beautiful experience at our first Pleasure Playshop with Dragonfly and E. It gave us a sense of the potential for how deeply we could connect given the right guidance. We're looking forward to doing more in the future with Dragonfly and E to deepen our loving connection."
RM & MK, FL, USA
"The entire experience was enjoyable. I had the chance to explore my wife in a way that we hadn't tried before. Dragonfly's guidance was very helpful. My wife also enjoyed her touch."
C & K, Memphis, TN
Yemoja, GA
"Your approach to relationships and sex are a gift to so many people in this world. Please keep doing what you are doing for all of us.”
S & A, PR
"You have opened up something in both of us that we didn’t know was there and we have been married for 17 years!!”
Tonya & Ned, VA
"We had a beautiful experience at our first Pleasure Playshop with Dragonfly and E. It gave us a sense of the potential for how deeply we could connect given the right guidance. We're looking forward to doing more in the future with Dragonfly and E to deepen our loving connection."
RM & MK, FL, USA
"Great experience!! We learned so much about touches and ourselves-- Can't wait to come again!"
Amanda & Jim, AZ
"A great experience to bring couples closer! It was an amazing workshop, stressing the importance of mutual touching, arousal, and foreplay. Helps with connecting with a mate."
Tina & Eddie, FL
Deanne, FL
"Was a fun BDSM class last night at Caliente. We had no idea what to expect as our exploration into this was just self-taught and read. You have a wonderful centered energy about you to express the beauty of sex without limits."
Michael & Beth
"We enjoyed the class and loved dragonfly and E. Great workshop! Would recommend any and all sessions you can experience with Dragonfly and E."
Phil & Lori, CA
"Dear Fellow Goddesses,
At first, I was unsure about going into this Gateway Weekend. This was my first time going to anything like this and I was unsure of what may happen and who I may meet there. I always jump to negative feelings first, because that’s my way of dealing with new situations, even when it’s a positive one. I arrived and at first, was still hesitant, but it felt comforting to be around Dragonfly and so many positive energies of women. Once we began talking and connecting, it felt peaceful and satisfying. I blossomed. I found things about myself that I didn’t want to face. I never focus on me, I’m the kind of person that would put someone else before me. I am truly grateful for this weekend for giving me that confidence to learn more about myself and to face those things.
It’s helped me to think about myself is not a selfish way but a sensual way. I should love myself, it’s not wrong or shameful. I never believed this truly until being here this weekend. By accepting that I am in the way of what I want in life, I can move forward. The biggest thing I took away from this weekend is that crying is okay. I’ve always been told, “don’t cry, you must be strong”, when I’ve been strong the whole time, just aggressively tearing up as well. It’s okay to cry and expel that from yourself.It makes room for happiness to fill that void!
I look forward to another Gateway weekend. I enjoyed feeling my inner goddess strength and allowing myself to feel free. My spirit was free. I was left wanting more and I can’t wait to attend more sessions of Dragonflies! Her aura and soothing voice sent me to another dimension. I recommended this as soon as I left the first night. Other women, I knew that would benefit from this experience and allow themselves to be free. I can’t wait to continue this spiritual journey on connecting with my inner goddess."
Lindsi W., FL
"Wonderful experience. Could not have been put on more perfectly. My only regret is that we had to leave town before "Ignite His Flame."
Anonymous, New Orleans
"We loved how the classes were set, and we had great experience and loved new toys. Great music, voice sound, and mood set."
A & L, CA
Erin & Jack, NY
"We were hesitant to do the class but ended up being a great experience for us and our relationship."
K & R, Maryland
"This was an eye-opening experience for my husband and me. Who knew you could personalize kink to your comfort & pleasure level!"
Jill & Mark, MA
Dan & Ki, FL
"We cannot wait to see what other playshops you have for us in the future at other events. You can count us in on everything you do!”
W & A, MN
"Who knew I enjoyed the combinations of so many sensations of touch, I love to be spanked!”
D & D, CA
When Dragonfly asked for a testimonial, I wasn't sure how much to share. I know that it helped me to read others experience, even if I wasn't necessarily going to have the same experience, it helps! So here it is. I hope this helps you attend one of Pure Orgasmic Love's event and connect with the amazing work Dragonfly and her team are doing!
I was nervous about the unknown. I wondered what I would have to do, and scared of what may come up deep within me. I was dealing with really intense depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts just before the Goddess Gateway. I was terrified I was not going to be comfortable opening up about these things around a bunch of strangers. I know that (even if it varies in intensity for people who have the same emotional pain) this is a common obstacle, and I tried to push passed it as much as possible so that I would not inhibit myself from growing. I was very curious about what tools I could use to better restructure how I process getting through really rough emotional storms.
I WAS NOT ALONE. I listened to the other women who all made me feel so secure, and validated. They had gone through very similar emotions whether this Goddess Gateway was their first or second. I knew from the core of my being that I accepted this opportunity because I crave to be a better version of myself. I did take my moments to be alone and cry if I needed to self soothe and process the pain that came through during the exercises... but when I came back I felt that much more empowered. The releasing I did with the other women made me feel so much stronger than any time I’ve held it all in. I was encouraged the entire way to take care of myself, learning what that looked like for me.More than anything, I realized I had underrated my desires, needs, wants. I am learning to prioritize myself because I can not give my best when I am falling apart. I saw that there's a lot I neglect about myself just to please others.
Now, I breathe more. I'm slower to react because I want to process how I am feeling. And last, I don’t dismiss and close my pain off from people because I’m scared it’s too much for them. I am still learning how I want to use my words to properly communicate when things go wrong in my life to my loved ones. I also see that I actually need to fall apart so I can build myself up stronger, and showing others your vulnerabilities actually makes you more bonded; it’s an encouraging feeling.
This Goddess Gateway showed me that maybe my initial reaction is coming from how previous toxic relationships and negative environments have influenced me to not be true to myself. I want to be an open hearted, supportive, fun and a relaxed spirit of a person and I now have tools and I better understand how that looks and feels for me as an individual. Three days of being in this unconditionally loving environment was not enough. When it was coming to a close, I was sad because I longed for more. I am so grateful I had the opportunity to shed light on the dark place I was in. This was like giving a child a night light, things that were locked away and mysterious are no longer terrifying me to the point I feel paralyzed. However, I am ready for all the loving warm light- hoping to ignite and brighten another corner with each Gateway and Retreat as I continue to grow with Dragonfly at Pure Orgasmic Love.
Ivy Rose, FL
