PleasurePLAY Retreat
April 19-23, 2023

Your PleasurePLAY Experience

You love connecting with your partner and would love to learn more about how to tease, please and expand your orgasmic possibilities, yes?

You love connecting with other people to experience and enhancing pleasure for your body and would love to learn how to increase the satisfaction you have during those moments, yes?

Heart-opening lessons, sensual exploration, sexual mastery, erotic inspiration, and all this in connection with others is within your reach…

Playing with others and knowing how to do things that make you moan and your whole body smile, and wanting more…
That
IS what this PleasurePLAY Retreat is all about!

Intimate

Sensual

Playful

Connective

The PleasurePLAY Retreat is designed explicitly for the consensual non-monogamous couple looking to enhance their experiences with each other and other partners.

Limited to six couples because I like to keep it extra intimate. You will have the chance to explore new techniques, and learn how to effectively apply those skills.

Allow yourself to engage in ways that brings new invigorating energy to everything you touch!

Touch is a vast part of this PleasurePLAY Retreat…after all, it is a PleasurePLAY Retreat, and touch is part of our play

Your PleasurePLAY Oasis

This is a modern luxury villa for your one-of-a-kind PleasurePLAY Retreat.
This private villa is a fantastic artist’s gem situated in the Guanacaste Province on the beautiful Costa Rican coastline, located in the center of the colorful seaside town of Tamarindo Beach.
A uniquely built villa by all accounts, it radiates outward in a circular design, a lavishly embellished great room dominating its core.

The bedrooms…well…delicious moments are in store for you there. Each equipped with a luxurious king-size bed and its own en-suite bathroom has been uniquely decorated with a different theme; all are designed with comfort and luxury at the forefront and are beautifully embellished with bespoke furnishings and lustrous bed linens.
You and your partner have your choice – each room is distinctive in its style choices, with the only clue being the name on the door to allude to what’s in store. From the bright, turquoise-accented Celeste and delicate pinks of Coral to the clean, bright whites and elegant greys and blacks of Bianca and Ebony, your PleasurePLAY Retreat has a room to suit all tastes.

The garden is a veritable paradise, a relaxing oasis illuminated by thoughtfully designed lighting to highlight its best features, even by night, which affords you and your partner intimate privacy wherever you might be on the property. The villa is framed by verdant green tropical plants and carefully manicured lawns bordered by sea-rounded stones. A covered outdoor lounge with comfortable seating allows for a more intimate conversation or enjoying a morning tea or coffee to the Costa Rican sunrise surrounded by the flora. A gorgeous waterfall feature set within the grand infinity-edge swimming pool instills a Zen-like ambiance to the garden, as the sound of flowing water allows you to fully release, relax and immerse in the experience.

A fantasy experience you won’t want to miss submerging yourself into!

“We were super excited when we signed up, but got apprehensive as the date grew closer. The event, however, exceeded our expectations. We were made to feel super comfortable, and were able to explore each other in a way we never had before. We also improved our communication. We now have great memories, new techniques we can use to excite each other, and can’t wait to attend another event.” 

K & C, NC

Retreat

Included:

Private Luxury Villa

Accommodations for two. 

Nurishment

3 gourmet meals + snacks + non alcoholic drinks.

*meals planned by a certified nutritionist and prepared by a professional chef. 

ALL Teachings

Experiential hands on learning w/Dragonfly & other attendees.

Couples Pleasure Bag

Items specifically curated by Dragonfly to enhance your experience & pleasure. 

Sexytime Playtime

With yourself, with others!

Relaxing

Sitting by the pool or lounging in the garden.

Not Included:

  • Flights
  • Travel Insurance
  • Adventure excursions
  • Extra activities
  • Alcohol
  • Unknown Incidentals

Ready to join us?

Space is limited to six couples.

Applications to attend are reviewed and accepted/denied on a first come, first served basis.

After you submit your application, a 30 min private interview video call will be scheduled for you and your partner to attend. This appointment is required for you and your partner to answer a few Qs to ensure this retreat is the right one for you and receive further information to support your experience while attending.

After the interview, your application will be complete. Pure Orgasmic Love will be able to offer you a space at this specific retreat or an alternative that may be better suited for you at this time. 

*Please submit applications to attend this PleasurePLAY Retreat, ONLY. General contact Qs, please use the contact form. 


Your Private Bedroom Options

Bianca:

King size bed, Twin bed, En-suite bathroom, Air conditioning

Your enchanted winter forest awaits! Surrounded by white floor-to-ceiling tree columns, you truly feel the grounding of the natural bamboo wood floors as you step up onto the platform of your king-sized bed and gaze up at the dreamy leaf-fan above. Engulfed in white with touches of turquoise, this room brings the peace of freshly fallen snow in the middle of a tropical paradise. 

Coral:

King size bed, En-suite bathroom, Air conditioning

Melt into a decadent spring fantasy in your king-sized canopy bed. You’ll feel the warmth of the rich coral colors woven throughout, featuring nature bursting in all its beauty. The natural wood touches meld with the glowing shades of red to create a welcoming warmth.

Celeste:

King size bed, En-suite bathroom, Air conditioning

Welcome to your peaceful retreat. Natural light reflects the gorgeous turquoise tones, offset with the natural bamboo wood floors are perfect to relax in your king-sized bed. Combining subtle ornate traditional Moroccan prints and candelabras with clean, modern in-laid designs creates a gentle zen balance.

Canela:

King size bed, En-suite bathroom, Air conditioning

Get ready to entwine and unwind! With tons of natural lighting, this earthen space glows with warmth. Your king-sized canopy bed features smooth, rustic branches woven together, with wooden ceilings and floors. Cairn lamps accent this radiant, natural space.

Carmen:

King size bed, Twin bed, En-suite bathroom, Air conditioning

Look out, this space is caliente! An unnamed vixen dances at the head of your king-sized bed as colorful Cuban designs juxtapose the austere black and red on the walls. This is the perfect space to spice things up. 

Ebony:

King size bed, Twin bed, En-suite bathroom, Air conditioning

Ready to let loose your animal side? Mounted abstract animal heads pull out your wild side in your open king-sized bed. Modern tribal prints accent the warm, neutral colors, creating that oh-so-primal space that invites you to explore.

Your Sneaky Peeky

“Sample Schedule”

Wednesday:

  • Arrival
  • Day time snacks upon arrival
  • 7:00pm Dinner
  • 8:15pm Special Mingle & Tingle

Thursday:

  • 8:00am Orgasmic Meditation
  • 8:30am Sexercise-Pure Orgasmic Yoga/Movement
  • 9:30am Breakfast
  • 10:30am-1:30 Let’s Communicate Connection & Sex
  • 1:30pm Lunch
  • 2:30-5:30 Tantalizing Touch for Your Tingles & Mine
  • 5:30pm-7:00pm Private Sexytime Playtime/Relaxation
  • 7:30pm Dinner
  • 8:30 Sexy YOUtainment


Love…from Clients

“I really don’t know where to begin, so I’m going to try and make this short but to the point.

THANK YOU Dragonfly. Without you, I would still be having good sex. Now there is nothing wrong with good sex. But like she says, sometimes we don’t know what we don’t know till we know we didn’t (well something like that anyway). That was us, but I didn’t realize it. Now I do, and my husband and I not only have the ‘orgasmic mind blowing sex’ with each other but we can share ourselves in a new way. Being in the swinging lifestyle, we had lots of sex but it wasn’t always good, definitely not fantastic. Now it is a different story going to parties and events with more confidence in understanding our bodies needs and knowing how to have sex with others authentically. Wow, does that make a big difference! And if you are concerned, you won’t learn what you need to, well that would be your own fault. Don’t do that to yourself. Take it from us. Working with Dragonfly (and E, her husband, because he also helped us lose weight and feel healthy again) was a gift, a tremendous gift for us for a lifetime. You really can not put a price on that! You will be super happy you did!”

Carrie & Darnell, LA

“Your approach to relationships and sex are a gift to so many people in this world. Please keep doing what you are doing for all of us. It can be hard to connect in a way that feels good to me (April) in this lifestyle and you have made all the difference for me, such an impact. No one should be in this lifestyle without attending your events. Thank you for helping us find an amazing place in all of this!” 

Forever Grateful -Sam & April, PR 

“Fantastic experience, not to be missed! We are returning clients and will continue to attend future workshops. We highly recommend anything you can get to of Dragonfly’s, seminars, classes, workshops, retreats. This IS for ALL couples interested in enhancing their communication, passion, and bonding.”

J and J, New York


“We met Dragonfly at Sexperience in 2021 and were immediately swept into her vibe. Her openness, honesty and sincerity in sharing her passion for the pleasures that couples can bring to each other was exactly what we hoped to find there. Beyond her amazing lessons on the art of touch, she shared how we can better communicate with each other on the most intimate of topics. And those lessons are the ones that will live with us in every aspect of of our lives.”

Leo & Donna

Your PleasurePLAY Investment

$8,669 per couple

Payment Plan = $9,015 per couple

Payment plan details are contingent upon the date the plan begins. Payment deadline is March 18, 2023

Deposit:

Upon your acceptance to attend the retreat, a $1000 non-refundable deposit must be made to to secure your spot.

Space is limited, so early registration and prompt deposits are encouraged.

Cancelation Policy:

This retreat is 100% non-refundable. If you cannot attend or we must cancel due to unforeseen circumstances. A credit will be issued of equal value to use towards a different Pure Orgasmic Love Retreat.

Ready to join us?

Space is limited to six couples.

Applications to attend are reviewed and accepted/denied on a first come, first served basis.

After you submit your application, a 30 min private interview video call will be scheduled for you and your partner to attend. This appointment is required for you and your partner to answer a few Qs to ensure this retreat is the right one for you and receive further information to support your experience while attending.

After the interview, your application will be complete. Pure Orgasmic Love will be able to offer you a space at this specific retreat or an alternative that may be better suited for you at this time. 

*Please submit applications to attend this PleasurePLAY Retreat, ONLY. General contact Qs, please use the contact form. 


Meet Your PleasurePLAY Team

Dragonfly

Founder of Pure Orgasmic Love, CEO, Somatic Sexologist, Certified Sexual Bodyworker, Somatica® Practitioner, and Consensual Non-monogamy Coach

My foundational love for connection, touch, and intimacy. Greatly supports my mission of helping others create an orgasmic life of pleasure; I believe we were all born to live.

Freely being able to consensual connect with me, my partner, and other partners that enhance our life! Living a life without shame, or judgment, of myself and others, allows me to know what it means to understand and accept one’s needs and desires.

In turn, supporting you in discovering and feeling all the pleasure your body wants and genuinely needs. Guiding you in discovering what that looks like and learning the skills to implement it for a lifetime.

E (Erik)
aka “MR DRAGONFLY”

Sexual Nutrition and Hormone Balance Magician. Certified Primal Health Coach

E’s twenty-year zoology career was the perfect place to accumulate a deep understanding of animal biology (humans are animals, you know) on a foundational basis. He brings his evolution-based viewpoint of nutrition-linked reproduction to human health and sexual wellness.

Along with the vast support he brings to POL and the perfect slice of masculine energy to the balance of sensuality that is Dragonfly in a co-teaching super sexy duo!

JACKIE

POL Assistant, Bodyworker & Certified Pure Orgasmic Yoga Instructor

Jackie’s playful vibes shine in the yoga and body work practices she shares. This Jackie-of-All-Trades spent 20 years blazing paths in the ever-evolving world of online education, specializing in language development through interactive media production. A teacher at heart, Jackie brings with her a depth of compassion and patience for the learning process.

Years of physical and emotional self-healing led Jackie to step away from the computer and onto the yoga mat. Frequent visits to Asia granted Jackie the great fortune to study with a Chinese doctor while studying anatomy through yoga and her own injuries. Jackie combines these Eastern medicine methods with traditional massage techniques, intuitive energy movement, and spiritual connection to provide transformative bodywork experiences.

Jackie believes that we unlock our best selves when in balance – mind, body and soul – nurturing our creative selves, maintaining mindfulness, and embracing the natural playful spirit within us all. She wants to raise the planet’s vibrations through meditation, yoga, and bodywork one loving heartbeat at a time. Namaste.

FAQ’s

Food & Beverages

What will the menu be like?

The menu will be a fusion of local culture and biologically sound nutrition, meals planned by a certified nutritionist and prepared by a professional chef.

I have food allergies. Will it be safe to eat at the retreat?

Yes. E & I have a deep understanding of food allergies and we will take great care and time to make sure there is nothing that you are allergic is added to, or cross contamination with your food. This will be a question that will be gone over multiple times, please take care of yourself and let me know the specifics of what you are allergic to. 

What type of alcohol do you serve?

Due to the fact that alcohol is a numbing agent and not supportive for sexual health or your sex education experience there will be no alcohol provided. If you want an evening drink please bring your own. 

Location & Transport

How do I get to the retreat?

Transportation is included. There will be 1-2 pick-up times scheduled with a lux van transport service, depending on when everyone’s flights arrive. If you do not want to wait, you are more than welcome to get a taxi and arrive when you wish.

What time should I arrive at the retreat?

You are free to set a time to arrive Wednesday, anytime after 10 am. Prefered arrival before 6:00 pm. Dinner is at 7:00 pm!

Communication & Internet

Is there wifi?

Yes. There is wi-fi and cell phone service. Sometimes there can be unstable internet in other countries. I cannot guarantee it will be the same reliability as home.

*I would highly encourage you take this time for yourself and completely unplug. Give yourself the gift that will enhance, deepen your experience and support you and your relationship for a lifetime!